It’s been a strange month. With only one stumble, I’ve managed to stick with my initial goal — that of not allowing a separate, “special” trip to the grocery store should I make the decision to binge. In other words, if I feel the need to eat beyond what I’d planned, it must be foods that I already have at home; no special “treats” or normally “forbidden” items. The idea is, I wanted to see what would happen if I removed any sense of allure to the binges, at least in terms of WHAT they would entail. There’s not nearly as much enjoyment from them when they’re simply comprised of foods I’m already including on my food plan!
But I also did make that 90-day challenge for myself, one in which I wanted to see how long I could be abstinent (abstinent, in this case, referring primarily to not bingeing). Not wanting to evaluate the wisdom of issuing such an ambitious challenge until I gave it an earnest shot, my behavior these last few weeks has been quite interesting, to say the least. I would call it a mixed bag, in terms of success.
There have some very distinct differences in my current eating patterns than my norm. True to the goal, I have not “binged” in the same sense I normally do. Normally, if I decide to binge, along with the glee I feel in allowing myself access to certain “treat” foods, I typically throw any sense of calorie-counting or even hunger checkpoints out the window. Basically, I eat until either the foods I’m interested in are gone or until I’ve “had my fill,” which almost 100% of the time means by the time I stop eating, I am extremely uncomfortable. HORRIBLY uncomfortable. That, actually, has been among the leading incentives for my wanting to change these days. I feel mournful, sorrowful, and quite scared, at the awful abuse I inflict on my body by this behavior.
But in the place of the “normal” binges has been a sort of hybrid creature, and I’m not liking it. In some ways, it’s “good” in that, I have yet to eat completely out of control or to get to that “horrible discomfort” point. What has happened is, in between days of clean eating, I have days in which I, after dinner, decide to eat extra food. The big differences are, I’m choosing foods that offer no more enticement than my food plan: soup, apples, microwave popcorn, etc. AND I’m still counting my calories meticulously, so that at least I know what the damage is. And while I still end up eating more than I want, I do stop well before I would normally do so. Clearly, these strays are not serving quite the same “release the pressure valve” purpose offered by most of my binges. But I still consider them binges. They still render me way beyond an amount of calories I need, though nothing like the devastating calorie blitzes I’ve been guilty of inhaling in the past. And predictably, it doesn’t take nearly as long to recover from these deviations; I find much less “aftermath” to suffer and start to feel like myself again sooner than I do under normal “post binge” circumstances.
But the mind is tricky, and with these changes — I actually worried that this would happen — I’m straying from my food plan more frequently than normal. This is disturbing me greatly. I worry that if I keep at this, I may be looking at the formation of a habit that will be tough to break. A habit that could turn disastrous if my momentary “relative” self-control with these eating splurges should ever spiral back in the direction of my regular binges.
So my instinct is to say, this was good, it served its purpose, it helped me swing my eating habits back (overall) to a more healthy schedule, it gave me good insights — insights I would not have had if I had kept my same-old, same-old m.o., but now I need to let it go. Do I think I could keep going for the full 90 days? Actually…..yes. But I’m not sure this is what I want. If I stop it now, I have a much better chance at breaking this pattern before it has a chance to really become habit.
But how’s this for a monkey wrench? So far, it seems my weight has stabilized! Not to where I usually like it — I’m still about 2-3 pounds above my normal weight (I’d gained about 4-5 from the holidays this year, more turmoil than usual, part of the reason for my doing this month experiment). But, if I’m to believe my weigh-in of a couple of days ago….and a few days before that…..yeah, it appears possible that things aren’t deteriorating on the weight end. MAYBE. Two or three weigh-ins are hardly enough to see a trend.
So….. I have some thinking to do. I’m not afraid to abandon either the 90 day challenge OR the January challenge (actually…..I won’t abandon the latter as there are only a few days left of the month, and I do think this is a good break from certain food habits I’d developed) if it turns out to be not what I feel is what I want.
I also may take a break from this blog (hey, it IS called the *part-time* bulimic, isn’t it? my attempt at humor). I have so much going on with my work and I worry that concern about blogging is actually taking my eyes off my eating “steering wheel” at the moment. Then again, maybe I’ll discover I benefit more by keeping the blog going than in taking a break. I just wanted to let readers know what’s up if I suddenly drop off the face of the earth.
We’ll see!
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